Sex and the City

Many years ago, sex was always on the “hush”. Momma and daddy didn’t talk about it. The televisions would not view it, especially before 8 PM. And the radios would not play any music that was uncensored. In the early 70’s and 80’s, children would play board games, go outside and play hopscotch or ride their bikes without any thoughts of loosing site of being a child and not just having sex as game of choice.

In this 21st century, we are seeing more and more young men and women participating in the act of sexual intercourse. Whether it is voluntary or involuntary, it is being done. We are in a Sexual Revolution!!! It seems that giving a man sex theses days for many young women, it gives them security and makes them think that this is a way to a man’s heart. While the young men are just taking it because this is what they think is suppose to happen. Hormones are raging, yet the parents are not in control or at least in the dark.  

How did we get here? The answer is quiet simple. Everything is shown on television today. The Simpson’s are pretty much X-rated, yet it is in animation. Videos are pretty much uncensored and surrounded by sexual explicit content where the women are always half naked and the men are eating it up.  What young women you know is not sitting in front of her TV looking to see the latest video from her favorite hip hop artist, so that she can go to school the next day and impersonate what has been shown. Sexiness has been taken to a whole other level, and is disabling parents from the ability to not have the conversations that is now needed more than ever.  A SEXUAL REVOLUTION!!! When a young girl at the of 12 or under is standing in the middle of the floor watching a video singing “Drunk In Love” with a half clothed woman gyrating on you tv screen, And you see this child mimicking this, why laugh as if it is funny? It is not. It is the start of something that could take over her life. Censor your children early.  Because the more they see, the more they memorize.   Young women, we were not put here to exploit our sexuality.  We are not only here to replenish the earth. We are her to celebrate our sexuality and hold on to our womanhood for the one that will “put a ring on it” the way he is supposed to.  What happened to the days of courting? What happened to the Movie nights and Flowers?  Young women, never settle for less than you deserve. Young men, never settle for less than you deserve.Some young women can and will over powering your judgment, and use sexual arousals to stimulate you instead of your

mind. Be careful! It could be a trap you are stepping in. Teenage pregnancy is rising every day, and for what? To be the next guest on Maury as he says “You are the father” and yet you are still someone else’s young son who is now having a baby by a woman he does not love.  Sex is supposed to be a beautiful thing between two people that are really committed to one another, not a GAME.It is imperative that we come out from the Sexual Revolution that we are currently in and return to the love and marriage that we should never have moved from. Lets come back to love my people.